You must have heard the quote by Ashley Rickards; “The power you have is to be the best version of yourself you can be, so you can create a better world.” It is really hard to meet all the expectations from people associated with a woman’s lives and their own expectations also matter a lot.
As per United States Department of Labor around 66 Million girls and ladies are employed in US and this is almost 47 percent of total workforce of US. These numbers indicate that women are not leaving any stone untouched and doing it all. This also suggests that today’s woman love to manage their finances even when they are in a relationship. Now, is this going to affect their love life or relationship status? To create equilibrium in life one need to manage relationships along with finances. Check out these tips to get a balanced and happy life:
Go priority wise: We all have priorities in our lives and one should have the ability to finger point those priorities. Few women keep their family as priority and few like to keep their professional life in front of all. There is no good and bad about this. If you do not recognize your priorities then no matter how successful you become in your current role you will not be happy about it. You can easily take care of your family and place finances as second priority and vice versa if that is what makes you happy.
Look for a suitable collaboration: When it is about forming a romantic relationship you need to think a lot. If you are kind of women who like to take front part regarding money and finances then you need to find someone who can support your nature. People look for so many qualities before forming a relationship but women should discuss about their thought about finance before taking any major decision.
Hiding your core nature is not recommended: Today’s women are proud about their present status and choices. When you are in a relationship it is not easy to hide one’s core nature for long time neither it is recommended. If you are person who doesn’t like any kind of financial support or if you don’t mind sharing finances; whatever suits you the most you must disclose it.
Give your partner equal space: May be as a woman you are earning on a satisfactory level and can support your family alone. But it is important when you are taking any financial decision you should make your partner involved equally, so that you can take mutual decisions that make you both content.
Decide finance allotment: When you are in a relationship, both your partner and you need to have a clear idea about your rolls. First check out your financial responsibilities like monthly bills, debt repayment, and insurance bills; and then decide who is going to pay which portion. You both should agree full heartedly to this arrangement. If you have any issue to pay your portion, do not feel ashamed to inform it so that you can think about a solution.
Finally, if you are not in any relationship and single then don’t feel bad about it too. You can enjoy your financial independency fully as a single woman. As women you should adore the relationship that you share with your own selves.